#12 NEHEMIAH | Rusty Old Men
Dr. Stephen Phinney: Before Nehemiah could awaken the men to their mission, he had to confront them with their responsibilities.
IF YOU DON’T TRUST - YOU RUST
Living in a culture where men frequently don't trust others, let alone Yeshua, presents a profound challenge.
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This pervasive mistrust can create barriers to genuine relationships, authority figures, and spiritual growth. In such an environment, it becomes even more crucial for men to exemplify integrity, compassion, and the ability to lead others. If discipled effectively, they can begin to bridge the gap of mistrust, demonstrating Yeshua's steadfast and unchanging leadership. By embodying the principles of biblical leadership, men can build an atmosphere where trust can be rebuilt, and the true message of Yeshua can resonate with those who are skeptical or wary of established authority.
True honorable leadership begins with trust. A leader who cultivates trust builds a foundation of integrity and respect, creating an environment where open communication, collaboration, and leadership can thrive.
Rusty Old Men
Leaders who refuse to trust other leaders metaphorically turn into a rusty old vessel. Just as rust eats away at the integrity of a ship, eroding its strength and rendering it ineffective, a lack of trust corrodes the foundation of leadership, diminishing its impact and potential. Without trust, collaboration falters, innovation stalls, and the team spirit disintegrates. Leaders must foster trust and mutual respect to navigate the seas of challenges successfully and keep their vessels of leadership—both literal and metaphorical—sailing smoothly and effectively.
Nehemiah had to contend with rusty old men, individuals who shirked their leadership responsibilities and failed to take action to save their families, city, and nation. In the face of apathy and resistance, Nehemiah's unwavering commitment and steadfast leadership shone through - within 52 days, I might add. He rallied the people, reignited their sense of purpose, and guided them in rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem. His story serves as a powerful reminder that effective leadership requires vision, courage, and the ability to inspire others to rise above complacency and embrace their roles in the collective mission.
Before Nehemiah could awaken the men to their mission, he had to confront them with their responsibilities.
He boldly addressed their complacency and negligence, highlighting the urgency of their situation and the dire consequences of inaction. By holding them accountable, Nehemiah reignited their sense of duty and inspired them to rise to the challenge of rebuilding their city and securing their future. His leadership exemplifies the power of confronting uncomfortable truths to catalyze meaningful change and collective action.
Proverbs 6:6-11: "Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! It has no commander, no overseer or ruler, yet it stores its provisions in summer and gathers its food at harvest. How long will you lie there, you sluggard? When will you get up from your sleep? A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest—and poverty will come on you like a thief and scarcity like an armed man."
Nehemiah faces significant challenges, including opposition, complacency, and discouragement among the people. When he arrives in Jerusalem, he finds the walls broken down, sluggards for leaders, and the gates burned. He takes on the daunting task of motivating the men to rebuild the city's defenses.
Nehemiah stated, "What you are doing is not right. Shouldn't you walk in the fear of our God to avoid the reproach of our Gentile enemies? I and my brothers and my men are also lending the people money and grain. But let us stop charging interest! Give back to them immediately their fields, vineyards, olive groves, and houses, and also the interest you are charging them—one percent of the money, grain, new wine, and olive oil."
What was wrong with these men?
Everything! The Book of Nehemiah addresses various social issues, including the mistreatment of the poor and neglecting their community - even selling their daughters to the enemy. In Nehemiah 5, Nehemiah confronts the nobles and officials for their unfair practices, which led some to sell their children into slavery to pay off debts.
Their cowardly reply: Although we are of the same flesh and blood as our fellow Jews and though our children are as good as theirs, yet we have to subject our sons and daughters to slavery. Some of our daughters have already been enslaved, but we are powerless, because our fields and our vineyards belong to others.
What man sells his children to buy a boat?
The worst kind of a man. One who reflects a deep sense of selfishness. In the context of the Hebrew Bible, leaders are indeed called to uphold justice, compassion, and care for their families and communities. The actions of neglecting or selling off one's children directly oppose the standards of leadership and responsibility, as exemplified by figures like Nehemiah.
Nehemiah himself condemned unjust practices and worked to restore fairness and dignity among the people of Jerusalem, emphasizing the importance of responsible headship, and accountability. His efforts to confront and correct the wrongs of his time demonstrate the kind of leadership that aligns with the principles of the Hebrew God.
The essence of true leadership and integrity often shines through in moments of sacrifice and selflessness. In many cultures and religious teachings, the well-being of one's family and community is paramount. Men who neglect their families or, worse, sell off their children, starkly contrast the ideals of righteousness, compassion, and responsibility.
"If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow Me." Matthew 19:21
Essentially, this is what Nehemiah was saying. Nehemiah demonstrated Yeshua’s words. He had to address backward forms of sacrifice. He also knew he was required to set an example of leadership: men willing to make personal sacrifices for the greater good of their people. This type of leadership reflects the leadership style of the Hebrew God—valuing and protecting the vulnerable, even at great personal cost. Such leaders set an example by putting the needs of others above their own, embodying principles of righteous leadership.
In our culture today, the lion’s share of men spend their time flirting with sin rather than with their wives. Moral men are willing to lay their lives down for those they love. Maybe that is the big question. Do they love their flesh over that of those put in their charge? That certainly was the case with Nehemiah’s men.
True leadership isn't about exerting power but serving with compassion, integrity, and unwavering commitment to our families, communities, and nation.
1. Protect Your Family: The foundation of a strong society begins at home. Be the protector and provider your family needs. Love, support, and guide them with the principles of faith and righteousness. Remember, it's not just about material provision but also emotional and spiritual support.
2. Serve Your Community: Your influence extends beyond the walls of your home. Engage with your community, stand up for justice, and be a voice for the voiceless. Volunteer your time, offer your skills, and help build a stronger, more compassionate society.
3. Lead with Integrity: In all your endeavors, lead with honesty and integrity. Be a role model in your actions, showing that true strength lies in humility and service. Remember the words of Yeshua in Matthew 20:26-28: "Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave—just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."
4. Uphold Indwelling Faith: Stay rooted in your faith. Let it guide your decisions and actions. Be courageous in standing up for what is right, even when it is difficult. Trust in God's wisdom and strength to lead you through every challenge.
Rise, men of God. Be the protectors, leaders, and servants that reflect His love and justice. Our families, communities, and nation need you now more than ever. Together, let's build a legacy of faith, integrity, and strength. Let’s follow Nehemiah’s example.
Don’t be one of them. Rise and take charge of who God designed you to lead!
